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One Question with Britany Robinson: Independent Travel

March 15, 2013 by Kristin Winet 2 Comments

Britany Robinson likes to tell the story about how she left a trail of bedrooms with little plastic stars stuck to the ceilings as she moved from place to place with her parents growing up. Now, as that little girl’s lust for movement never stopped, Britany is leaving a trail of metaphorical stars everywhere she goes and writing about it on her blog, Stars on the Ceiling. In our One Question response today, I ask Britany about independent travel and whether or not she’d have any advice to give a first-timer. Enjoy!

As a blogger who advocates for independent travel, what’s the one piece of advice you wish you’d had before you started out, and why?

I’ve been thinking about how to answer this question for awhile and I think I’ve finally concluded that there really isn’t any advice that I could have been given that would have significantly changed my trip. 
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The endless bits of advice and tips and words of encouragement we find in the community of solo travelers can all be put to good use, like… make sure to arrive in new cities during the day time, carry different types of locks for your belongings, and always tell someone back home where you are. You’ll constantly collect this type of advice whether you search it out or not because people are inherently concerned about solo travelers — particularly solo female travelers.
 
Then your trip starts and things happen that you never could have anticipated. Some of the advice you’ve collected proves useful and some proves completely futile. Ultimately, you realize that despite the challenges involved in any type of travel, it’s actually a lot easier than people portray it to be. You discover your groove — the ways in which you like to travel, and spend your days, and spend your money, and look after yourself. For me, travel has simultaneously proven completely awe-inspiring and completely natural. I love the challenges it presents and the comfort zones it forces me to abandon, but it has also started to feel normal — almost mundane, like this could just be my day to day life. 
 
So I guess I do have one thing I wish someone had advised me before the start of my trip: don’t stress out about the overwhelming amount of advice you’re going to receive prior to traveling.
 
If someone says “You CAN’T MISS THIS in Colombia” but you don’t have the time or the desire or either to fit it into your itinerary, then miss it. Focus on making your travels your own. At the end of the day, you’ll have endless stories, chock full of useful advice to doll out to other travelers but none of it will compare to what you’ve learned about yourself in the process of learning everything else.
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Britany Robinson’s blog, Stars on the Ceiling, is an outlet for recording a stubborn determination to discover what she wants out of life on her own terms. Its also a testament to the often ignored possibilities available to anyone who wants to do the same. She’s always up for exploring somewhere new and inspiring others to do the same!

Filed Under: Interviews, Women Writers Tagged With: Britney Robinson, One Question, travel tips, travel writing, women

One Question with Wendy Gunderson: Photographing People

February 22, 2013 by Kristin Winet 1 Comment

Wendy Gunderson, a freelance travel photographer, has devoted much of her work to the Caribbean, a place that, in her words, has helped her attain a true sense of irie, which in Jamaica means “an overall feeling of well-being.” (Love it, wish I had it). Today, she inaugurates our new One Question segment in which I ask a writer or photographer to reflect on one aspect of her or his writing, life, or photography. As a photographer who still feels incredibly awkward asking people if I can take their photo when I’m traveling, I wanted to know how Wendy deals with the delicate and often difficult task of meeting people and asking to capture them in a moment in time. Enjoy!

As a photographer, how do you best approach people you’d like to take pictures of when you travel? And do you think being a female traveler affects the way you interact with people you’ve never met before, and if so, what advice would you give to budding photographers?

One of the hardest things to do is to approach a stranger to take their photograph.  Photography often attracts people who would rather be on the outside observing, rather than actually engaging people, however, I have found that my best images of people are captured by engaging those people in conversation first, and taking photographs later.  As a woman, I think it’s easier to start the dialogue.  Women are viewed as less threatening, particularly by other women.  While a woman may not feel comfortable if a man approaches her to take her image, a woman approached by another woman will feel more at ease.

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Rodney Elliott, owner of Rodney’s Cuisine on Nevis
©2006-2013 Wendy G. Gunderson

While being a woman may make engaging strangers easier, it is not always easy to initiate the conversation.  I find that people like to talk about their country or their business first, and then they will ease into more personal discussion.  While in a restaurant, engage people by remarking on what you love about their country or the area.  Once they know you appreciate their place in the world, they are more inclined to talk, and will offer many more things about the area than you may have imagined.

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Two young people attending a birthday party at Sunshine’s Beach Bar on Nevis
©2006-2013 Wendy G. Gunderson

It helps to have done your homework.  Before we travel, I like to read not only about the sites to see in a particular place, but also about the history of the region. Find out how the country developed, the people who inhabited it, the dominant religions, the political system, etc.  Read the area’s newspaper online to understand what is timely, and what is of concern to the local citizens.  It gives you a perspective on how the area developed the way it did, and an insight into what makes people who they are.  It also helps you engage in conversation.

Ask questions.  Having done your homework and having some background information on the country will make it easier to ask intelligent questions.  In addition, people are likely to be more responsive if you ask questions reflective of the fact that you took the time to get to know something about the people and want to know more.

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Two young people attending a birthday party at Sunshine’s Beach Bar on Nevis
©2006-2013 Wendy G. Gunderson

What I have found is that through these conversations, I gain not only a much better appreciation of the country and its people, but I realize how much alike we all are.  Many of my conversations while traveling start with questions about the country, and eventually become conversations about family, politics, and religion, where I find we hold many of the same beliefs and concerns.  That is what makes a wonderful photograph, understanding the person behind it, not just capturing the superficial image.

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Wendy G. Gunderson is an attorney from Pewaukee, Wisconsin and founder of My Irie Time, http://myirietime.com/, a website devoted to travel in the Caribbean.  As she plans a November to trip to Eleuthera in the Bahamas, she is reading the book “Eleuthera, The Island Called Freedom,” about the history of the island, the local newspaper, “The Eleutheran,” http://www.eleutheranews.com/, and as much other information as she can gather regarding the island.

Filed Under: Photography, Women Writers Tagged With: encounters, One Question, travel photography, Wendy Gunderson, women

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